| User | Paconess1006 | | Topic | Friends with an Ex? | | Message | Is it possible to be friends with an ex, even though she is so absurdly slow and non-understanding? I mean, we all have the same friends, and I see her everyday, so I guess it can’t be avoided. But is there a way to do it without being bitter for not wanting me back? |
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| User | Rainin_Raspbery | 2005-05-09 | | | Subject | A Reply | | Message | Yes it is totally do able.I have lots of friends that are ex’s!Ex’s actually make good friends cause they kno you really well.But the bad part is they all also kno how to piss you off really well. |
| User | secret moon | 2005-04-28 | | | Subject | untitled | | Message | Yeah. Definitely absolutely. If you WANT to be friends with her, and you feel like it’s worthwhile, then go for it. There’s really not a whole lot to lose. Just be yourself and try not to worry about what she thinks... or at least act like you don’t care. Make yourself something totally desirable... don’t complain around her, be nice to people, just be open. Girls like this, even the ones that are only friends. Um... wow I really don’t know if that helped any but oh well. |
| User | ladydeathstrike | 2005-04-22 | | | Subject | untitled | | Message | its possible but are you going to be comfortable? i went through the same thing we see each other everyday and sometimes its hard but i try my best to not feel bad about it, YES... it ended now its time to move on why are you still thinking about her if you say she is slow and non understanding would you like to be friends with someone like that? Just because your other friends are friends with her does not mean you have to be too, just be nice and pleasant and if you dont want to associate with her then dont they wont hold it against you. Plus you should not feel bitter about the break up there are many more fish in the sea to be worring about her maybe you were not what she was looking and are you interested in someone like that ? im not trying to be mean but you asked for my opinion and im answering it truthfully |
| User | Paconess1006 | 2005-04-04 | | | Subject | untitled | | Message | well I think I’ve found my knack at keeping a friendship with her; pissing her off. As long as I’m being slightly annoying, she continues to smile and come to me with questions and we talk and such. Maybe it is becoming a friendship after all... |
| User | Maskannai | 2005-03-25 | | | Subject | untitled | | Message | The hardest thing about being friends after a relationship ends is just being friends.. That takes time, as it has for me with every relationship that didn’t work out.. I was engaged to this one guy and it took us nearly a year before we could be civil after our relationship ended.. |
| User | Brownsdelight | 2005-03-23 | | | Subject | untitled | | Message | I say yes it is possible to remain friends. If you don’t want to be friends though and you’re only being polite because she is there then why bother? I mean I wouldn’t . I’m not saying be hateful to her just ignore her and dont act "friendly" |
| User | Eggman | 2005-03-22 | | | Subject | untitled | | Message | =/
I haven’t had to deal with an ex in years.
If I remember correctly (which I don’t), they are best treated terribly but in good humor. |
| User | Kristina9178 | 2005-03-22 | | | Subject | untitled | | Message | doh!
can’t spell tonight...too much of the cabbie-nay |
| User | Kristina9178 | 2005-03-22 | | | Subject | untitled | | Message | I am friends with all of my ex’s but one. So that makes me friends with 4.
If their is a reason you loved them...that should be the reason you always do.
Unless they cheat on you. Then they are scum and they are done.
Like the one I don’t talk to.
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| User | WolfStar | 2005-03-20 | | | Subject | untitled | | Message | Well, you don’t really have to be friends with her.
If you hng out with the same people, you can be polite. No one has to force you to talk to her excessively or be buddies with her. You can just be cool and polite, and if you turn out to be friends, then that’s cool too. Don’t force it. for now, just work on being civil. That’s always step 1. |
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