| User | birdy5005 | | Topic | Questioning a love.. | | Message | I feel lame trying to get advice online, but it’s all i got right now.
I just recently broke up with my boyfriend of 11 months and, surprisingly, I wasn’t too heart broken. Now you ladies probably understand me with the fact that I want to just go out and goof off, meet people, have a good time, and see what happens.
Now...I have this really super nice and sexy friend, and I’ve always thought of him as just a friend. We’ve done things before; nothing too "into it," but I’ve been thinking that we could really hit it off. We’re going out tonight and I’m contemplating whether to take a step in this relationship, or keep it at it’s level. I’m sure we both have feelings for eachother, it seems we always have, but mine have just grown overwhelmingly and I really want him to "catch my drift." After all, I normally take steps two at a time. ;)
So, any advice would do. Preferrably soon....since our hot date is only hours away. :)
Thanks!
-Birdy |
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| User | littlepoet | 2005-04-28 | | | Subject | untitled | | Message | ask your self is he that in to you ? |
| User | ladydeathstrike | 2005-04-20 | | | Subject | listen up | | Message | you should go for it. If you dont you will never know how he feels and you will start to feel very uncomfortable around him and either way if your worried about the relationship changing, believe me when i tell you that relationships change everyday wheather we notice it or not. Dont worry so much about it, just let your intuition lead you if you feel your not ready then dont. but if you have this beating heart that seems it might pop out of your heart then go ahead and take a chance. hope everything works out
must go and solve my problems now ! good luck |
| User | Wook | 2005-04-13 | | | Subject | untitled | | Message | well since the date is over. how’d it go anyway i’d jes be open with him and tell him whats on your mind, thats what i would want a lady to do instead of all the guessing bs |
| User | magnicat | 2005-03-29 | | | Subject | untitled | | Message | go for it. life’s too short and connections too rare.. |
| User | Winterbliss | 2005-03-28 | | | Subject | untitled | | Message | I was going to offer advice...When OMG! I have the same problem and need advice myself. |
| User | Xsiv | 2005-03-24 | | | Subject | easy girl... | | Message | This is my opinion. Although, its sort of difficult to offer advice on someone I don’t know. But, its been my experience that when you have a male friend and it turns into a romantic interlude, its very difficult to remain friends after you have become intimate, drifted apart and then try to be friends again. If this guy has always been just a friend, I ask how close are/were you on a just friends level? Remember if you have always been able to talk to him about anything and then you find yourself needing to talk to him about a new guy your seeing...you won’t be able to because you’ve been intimate. I don’t know. Maybe you can. But, I found it extremely difficult. I have a friend that is very sexy and a major player. I’ve known him since we were kids. I have seen him break alot of hearts and have been grateful that i was never on that level with him. So, after 30 years of relationships coming and going and trials and experiences, we are still very good friends and i can talk to him about anything. I wouldn’t be able to do this had we been intimate. Good luck and you common sense. Thats why God gave it to us....*smile* |
| User | WolfStar | 2005-03-24 | | | Subject | untitled | | Message | It’s important you know what kind of relationship (if any) HE would want. If you’re just into "goofing off" and he wants something a little more serious, then you’re going to have problems. |
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