| User | graffitijeans | | Topic | AT A LOSS!!! | | Message | yeah, so i graduated May ’05...
and since then i haven’t gotten a job...and i don’t have any colleges set up.
so yeah, i don’t know what the hell to do with myself.
i’m so bored i almost feel dead.
i was wondering if anyone else feels this way after they graduate?
and i wanted to know if anyone could give me advice cause i’m so depressed right now cause i don’t have any clue about what to do.
i’ve always wanted to sing...but i never find good bands...
and to be honest...i think my ONLY goal in life is to be a singer.
(alternative/acoustic/poetic/emotional)
but i don’t know where to begin...???????????????
oh plus i’ve got like 16,000 from my dad cause he saved me a college fund.
?!?! i dunno what to do.
help.
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| User | SavedDragon | 2005-08-31 | | | Subject | Times of pain | | Message | There is always a way, think positive and something is bound to come at your doorstep, It is understood you have graduated as class of ’05. DO you aspire a further future in education? What is most important to you(I mean what does your heart really want for you). Thats when you come in a take a stand. This is the rest of your life we are talking about! Just remain human and "go with the flow but dont drown" |
| User | jaycee | 2005-08-26 | | | Subject | untitled | | Message | College is the place where most people figure out what they want to do. you could also try some of the free online sites for career planning if you can stand to do survey type things. It’ll give you a place to start.
As for the singing, a lot of colleges have choir and/ or musical production. You can learn a lot that will help You develope a stronger voice and better vocal range. |
| User | Ratiomeducet | 2005-08-23 | | | Subject | untitled | | Message | You could do what i did and go on a four year bender.. But then again, Im still broke and dont have a job. |
| User | Muse in White | 2005-08-23 | | | Subject | untitled | | Message | I think joeyalphabet is right, it’s better to go to college. Just study whatever you’re interested in (if you’re not interested, pretend to be). That way, you’ll have time to think about what you really wanna do in your life, and you’ll meet plenty of people who’ll help you in your choice, and you’ll have FUN. You can keep singing as a hobby for that time, then you’ll think about serious music buisness
I’m sure you’re not a loser, I’ll be graduated in June, I still dun know what to do, I wanna work with horses or to be a writer, but no one seems to understand and I totally feel lost too. But I’m still convinced that studying get anyone more openminded and help him or her to figure out what he/she wanna do in life.
good luck
:-)
laurie |
| User | Rokhal | 2005-08-18 | | | Subject | untitled | | Message | Now you’re making me feel guilty. Giver_of_death is much more positive. Good luck. |
| User | giver_of_death | 2005-08-18 | | | Subject | untitled | | Message | go out and try to find a job then apply for collages.in your spare time practise singing and maybe you’ll find a band that will go somewhere but make sure to get a collage education incase you band doesn’t work out you’ll still be able to get a decent job. |
| User | graffitijeans | 2005-08-18 | | | Subject | untitled | | Message | cool. yeah i uh....know what you two mean...i’m trying to apply for a college right now. thanks for the input...oh and rokhal. yeah you’re right. heh. what you said was funny and sad at the same time.....i feel like a fuckin loser. you have no idea.
:) good times... |
| User | joeyalphabet | 2005-08-18 | | | Subject | untitled | | Message | Go to college. If nothing else, it’ll keep you busy for 4 years while you figure out what you want to do with your life. Take it from a dropout, it’s easiest now; years from now you’ll regret not taking this opportunity. |
| User | Rokhal | 2005-08-18 | | | Subject | untitled | | Message | Get a job, get a college set up. Forget being a singer, because if you’re so indigent you have to come here to get someone to tell how to relieve your boredom, I see nothing for you but bland middle age, a tiny office, despair, and death. Get off your but. |
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