| User | Rosh_5 | | Topic | love | | Message | This question is completely an un-poetry question but how do you fall out of love. You see I always seem to fall in love with these men who would never return my affection and I know that I am only hurting myself yet it seems unfair of me to restrict my heart and tell it who not to love. Any advice would be helpful especially that from the men on this site cuz I could really use some guy insight .
thanks Rosh |
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| User | mercywraith | 2006-02-21 | | | Subject | untitled | | Message | Ahhh, I think tis is a tough questoin to answer. Emotions dont work on logic, they exist in thier own time, and if they arent dealt with and propperly processed, they get repressed and burried, and show up later in your personality and even sometimes as ailments. You cant *force* yourself or simply will yourself to make it go away. Love has many levels however, and it depends on the level of love you are presently at with this person.
True love should never be repressed. It is so rare, and its such a precious git, why let something like that go away so willingly?
My advice is to feel what you are feeling until you are done feeling it. |
| User | Yara Lorinda | 2006-02-09 | | | Subject | untitled | | Message | Well, to fall out of love will propably not work if you really want to.
But if you want to hear an advise. Get to know this guys better. Let the time do a bit of work. Soon you will not find them as "loveable" anymore. However, it is a beautiful gift to be able to build up such strong feeling often and quick. Certainly it does make you vulnerable, but that does not mean that it is a bad thing. To have strong emotions at all is something you should keep and not to let go off.
Well, I believe that someday you will have afeeling that is different to the kind of love you have to all this men. You will dream of flowers and smile at people you don’t even know- well, and you will propably pick up knitting or something like that.
Good luck,
AZ |
| User | Sasha Lynn | 2006-02-07 | | | Subject | untitled | | Message | You fall out of love by moving on. i just fell out of love fifteen minuets ago. no word yet on if i will actucally STAY out but hey, i feel pretty damn good right now. it sucks, i know it does but you need to realize that the person who did whatever they did is over it and the next guy/girl is waiting just around the corner. *peers anxiously around the corner* yes, i’m sure my up-beat gushing isn’t helping much but i can assure you it gets better but only if you let it!
Best Wishes
SASHA LYNN |
| User | abuzzbuzz92 | 2006-01-23 | | | Subject | untitled | | Message | don’t ever leave your house again |
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