| User | WolfStar | | Topic | Personal Question | | Message | Okay, those who know me know that I am generally not one to start up conversations about men and sex, but this one is particularly pressing right now, and as much as I dread volunteering this kind of subject for discussion, I must ask:
If something you do (that isn’t directed at anyone in particular) excites a certain "response" in a male... Is that personal? What I mean is, is it the just thing you did or is it you yourself (or something about you) that caused that effect? Or is there even a distinction between the two?
I hate to ask, but I need to be convinced that I can be my normal self around this person, and (not being a guy) I don’t really know the exact mechanics of the situation.
Much appreciation,
WolfStar
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| User | screams | 2006-02-04 | | | Subject | untitled | | Message | i think if you rubb it a little , it ocmes up. as simple as that |
| User | WolfStar | 2006-02-04 | | | Subject | untitled | | Message | mmmm, somewhat. But now I think I’m worried that it’s me. I don’t know what to do about it though. I mean, he’s openly gay, and a lot of his behavior towards me has been a little alarming lately because it seems as though he’s trying to be closer than close if you know what I mean.
My concern is that he needs to figure out his sexuality on his own, and I will not be his "experiment" relationship. But he is a very good person and I would hate to lose him as a friend. How do I handle that while not putting him in a corner or losing him as a friend? |
| User | mae | 2006-02-01 | | | Subject | untitled | | Message | Well, Wolfie, since you are in high school, I’m assuming you’re speaking of someone at school, and with that assumption, it’s a valid question. The teen-aged human male is a uniquely sex-hungry creature and you’re right, sometimes the things that create a ’response’ have nothing to do with the person to whom the young man is responding. In essence, he is NOT responding to the person, but to something that person has done, is wearing, or whatever. It’s more likely to be impersonal if he doesn’t have the same reaction to you under other circumstances. If he tends to get excited around you, then it’s probably you. If he doesn’t, and it just happened this once, then it’s probably something you did.
Does that help? mae |
| User | alteredlife | 2006-01-30 | | | Subject | Boooiiiinnngggg | | Message | An erection? It could be you, or it could be... you know, like a morning boner lol - they just happen, at any time. And it could be either you or what you did/said or showed... yea. |
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