| User | krissysheart | | Topic | confused | | Message | I know this is going to sound so pointless & stupid but for the past year i have been talking to this guy on the american aol aim instant message. i live in australia & he lives in america obviously we have exposed all our inner thoughts to eachother & have even believe it or not fallin for eachother. Problem being i have a child to my soon to be ex partner. I cant stop thinking about my special guy & we had agreed to stop torturing eachother but we always end up back to square 1...
I have never met him but i would do anything to hold him in my arms i dont know what to do...? we have both got partners but both want to be together i dont know what i should do HELP!!!!!!! he is in college finishes in dec & im longing for him... I feel sick all the time my chest hurts just with the thought of him i cry nearlly everyday... I want to be with him but were 2 worlds apart....... Any advice it would be much appretiated??
Can 2 people a world apart really get together??
can your soulmate be sooo far away?
Thank you please help me???? |
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| User | mae | 2006-12-20 | | | Subject | untitled | | Message | Why is your partner now your "soon to be ex-partner?" Perhaps you are sabotaging the relationship you actually have by shifting your focus to someone who is virtuall unattainable. Have you ever heard the old song "Love the One You’re With." I think it applies here.
mae |
| User | Rokhal | 2006-12-11 | | | Subject | untitled | | Message | From what I’ve heard, people you meet online are losers in real life. You build up such an idealized image of them as you chat, that you fall in love with the person in your head, not the guy on the other computer.
Talk to him on the phone, not on the chat, for a few weeks. It’s a lot less expensive than one of you flying over for dinner and a movie. Then see if you want to move forward.
Also, if you’re feeling sick, that’s not good. You have too much invested in this relationship. Write down on a piece of paper every morning, something like "I’m my own woman; I complete myself." It’s not up to some guy on the other side of the planet to make you happy; that’s your job. No one else can do that for you. |
| User | krissysheart | 2006-12-08 | | | Subject | Thanx | | Message | Its all good girls decision made THANK YOU!!!!!!!!!
MWA MWA |
| User | ChickenLittle | 2006-12-05 | | | Subject | hmmmm... | | Message | Not trying to sound mean, but you are going to have to make that decision for yourself. OBVIOUSLY by even thinking about all this, you are tired of the guy that you are with now, but like the other chick said, i doubt that its a good idea since it is on the internet. You just have to sit and think, what is better for you baby? Hope i helped at least a little! <3 |
| User | Lil gal | 2006-12-03 | | | Subject | untitled | | Message | careful, after all it’s the internet. |
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