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 User  Learah 
 Topic  Plastic Surgery 
 Message  Would you have surgery?  

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 User   Learah | 2005-01-27 |
 Subject  untitled 
 Message  yah yah yah we’ve already realised that, as you’ll see...

*pumps up*
 

 User   Rubi_Roja | 2005-01-26 |
 Subject  untitled 
 Message  you have to love yourself before you can fall in love
How could you ever learn to love yourself when you look in the mirror and the person you’re staring at is just a ghoslty reflection of what you used to be?
could you honestly love a lie
that is what platic surgey is today
A bigger lie then anything else, a quick fix that is more damaging then good.
I’m not taking about someone losing a breast to cancer and getting plastic surgery
I’m talking about the people who think that they are so ugly that they have to get a nose job, a face lift , lipo, and all that disgusting shit.
it is horrible! 

 User   besodemuerte | 2005-01-26 |
 Subject  untitled 
 Message  someone actually said that to you?!?!?! i woulda knocked him/her (i’m assuming him) on thier ass!!! 

 User   Learah | 2005-01-26 |
 Subject  untitled 
 Message  if someone said it to me, (and they have), I’d tell them to piss off, I didn’t ask for their opinion.
 

 User   besodemuerte | 2005-01-25 |
 Subject  untitled 
 Message  just out of curiosity.. this whole boob job thing.. you want it for various reasons.. one of them being you are not happy with the size you have now and would be happier if they were a little bigger... i see no problem with that... do what you want if it gives you that little boost...

but... how would you feel if someone else came up to you and suggested that you’re breasts would look better if they were just a smidgen bigger? 

 User   Learah | 2005-01-25 |
 Subject  untitled 
 Message  *Goes ahead and adds boob job to mental corkboard of "Things to Write For"*
:) 

 User   Mister Fizzle | 2005-01-24 |
 Subject  untitled 
 Message  *shrugs* it’s just my opinion Lereah, I’m flattered that you chose to respond to it so much, although it means as little as everyone elses in this thread. I never expected you to take anything I said to heart really, I was just commenting how I thought.

Listen, I’m just an average 28 year old guy, and on most days I love big tits as much as the next 28 year old guy. But every once in a while, when they aren’t right in front of me (like on here) a little human decency creeps into my testoterone driven lust and I try to give some decent advice.

If it’s not what you want to hear, well then, hey what can I say but, could you post a picture after the procedure?? lol na just kidding.

But seriously, take it easy, take care of yourself and good luck with everything. No hard feelings, just trying to be Mr. Good Guy for a change.


peace,
mister fizzle 

 User   Learah | 2005-01-24 |
 Subject  untitled 
 Message  Nah, I dunno... it’s not solely about wearing beautiful dresses. That’s a part of it. Another part of being able to live out every dream I have in life. There isn’t anything stopping me from writing a book, since I have the ideas in my head to fill it.
But I can’t craft a perfect dress because I wouldn’t be happy with how it looked, having being created within my own limitations.
At least with writing, you have a thesaurus when something doesn’t fit.

I’m not insecure. I’m actually extremely happy with my looks, because I’m blessed with more beauty than your average person. What makes me shine is the person I am, which is reflected in my face... I’m a lovely person, but I’m not perfect.
What’s wrong though, with self-improvement?
If more people in the world were encouraged to go down the path of letting themselves feel good, maybe the world’d be a happier place.

I can disregard you because I don’t know you from shit, but I appreciate what you have to say.
The general consensus of women who undertake cosmetic surgery do so because they’re unhappy.
Not all though. Some just want to be happier.

Live my life now, is the way to go. You might wanna be careful with such convincing arguments though; imagine if your opinion mattered so much to me that I took you to heart and lived a natural life just to say " I didn’t do what I wanted"? 

 User   marysunshine | 2005-01-24 |
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 Message  Go get the boobs! Screw the feminazis...yeah, you could learn to be happy with what God didn’t give you...but I say if you want’em...go get’em! You’re smart enough to realize that boobs don’t cause happiness, so you won’t be disillusioned into some big boob fantasy life full of expensive cars and champagne. But you might smile when you put on your creations and look how you want to look. I say Go4 it! 

 User   Mister Fizzle | 2005-01-24 |
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 Message  so let me make sure I am understanding you. Your saying to me that the reason you want breast implants is to fill out these beautiful gowns you make. Your saying that they just aren’t the same unless they are exploding with cleavage.

Your whole life you have had to give them away to your cleavage filled friends when deep down inside you have burned to wear them yourself. Yet on the brighter side you rage with confidence and have ego to spare.

Did I capture it? Did it sound somehow deeper when I said it, or was it still a little ridiculos?

Listen Learah, if you can make beautiful gowns, then you can make beautiful gowns to fit your "size" as well. Your an artist for godsakes, be creative.

Second, this is a vanity issue. You want bigger breast so you feel better about yourself. Why? It makes you meet what you percieve to be beauty. How did you come to such a perception? Thats easy, your perception was influenced by telivision, local culture, your friends, who happen to regurgitate the previous and probably a few "nasty boys".

And as far as being inside your head...I don’t have to climb inside a pretty girls mind to spot self-denial. I am a King of the artform and we can smell our own kind, my friend.

Hey take care of yourself, and remember, opinions are like as.sholes. You can ignore every word I say. Just don’t make a habit of it, I’ll mistake you for my wife (lol).



peace
fizzle 

 User   Learah | 2005-01-24 |
 Subject  untitled 
 Message  Thanks for telling me what I think, by the way.
When did you move into my head? 

 User   Learah | 2005-01-24 |
 Subject  untitled 
 Message  Fizzle: I design and make clothes. beeeautidul floor length skirts and corsets, I spend months crafting and stitching and planning...
to give them away free to my friends.
Why?
Because there’s no point in a to-die for bodice when you don’t have heaving bosoms to put in it.
There’s little satisfaction in buying boring one-pieces or plain bikinis on the beach when all the pretty stuff is for girls with nice boobies.
It’s not so enjoyable facing the mirror and having a sigh each time because I don’t like what momma Nature’s done to me.
Oh, the nasty boys?
I get that anyway. Boobs don’t make a blind bit of difference to my sexuality or allure. That’s inbuilt and I have every spare bit of ego going.

No, what matters is that there are things I’d like to do in my life, for me, and one of them happens to be a heaving bodice of royal blue satin and gold.
It includes walking down a beach in a bikini, loving it.

It means, I get my happiness anyway I want, as do you. If we can get it without hurting someone else, why hold back? There will be enough depressions in other areas of life to even out the surgeon’s balance. 

 User   Mister Fizzle | 2005-01-23 |
 Subject  untitled 
 Message  do you know why some think that those who want to have breast implants are concerned with what other people think?

it’s because they assume that the person having it done cannot fool themselves and will always look in the mirror and know that it is not really them. Yet they can fool others and change the perception others have of them.

So to me when someone says "I am not doing this for anyone else, only myself." I kind of think you just want to look in the mirror at those two perfect double d’s and smile because you know they are perfect and so will everyone else.

If it was only for yourself alone, implants could not help. They will always be an illusion that you will understand for what it is. It’s like trying to be amazed at a magic trick you already know the secrets to.

It’s kind of funny in a way. Women are the epitamy (probably spelled wrong) of "trying to have your cake and eat it too". On the one hand striving for equality and even shooting for dominance among men. On the other hand, still hung up on their looks the same as their ancestors.

aren’t instincts a bitch?

Personally I love tits. I think you should get them. Me and all the other "nasty boys" will gawk and draw jop as you walk by. But then again, without us, you wouldn’t care how big your breasts were.

peace,
fizzle 

 User   phil askew | 2005-01-18 |
 Subject  Boob Job? 
 Message  We got a boob job for my wife. She went up three sizes. It was so great, one of these days we may have the other one done.



 

 User   marysunshine | 2005-01-18 |
 Subject  untitled 
 Message  Boobs for Learah! Go get em! Just make sure you have a good surgeon...I seen some messed up lookin ones...make sure you look at his work first. 

 User   Learah | 2005-01-18 |
 Subject  untitled 
 Message  You know I get really sick of hearing the "your body is beautiful, don’t let yourself be swayed by misleading media images that make us feel inferior" crap.

I have boobs that make me UNHAPPY. I want boobs that make me happy. As Mary said, why would anyone want to stand in the way of my happiness when it doesn’t make a blind bit of difference to their life in any shape of form?

I’m not trying to conform to anyone’s expectations or demands. I don’t need an operation to be confident, or happy. I already am happy and confident.
But I would like to look in a mirror at myself and my chest and smile, rather than see a bony chest with two deflated bean bags. I couldn’t give a toss whether or not other people like my boobs, it’s none of their business. But I would like to like my boobs, and I never will when they are like this. 

 User   besodemuerte | 2005-01-18 |
 Subject  untitled 
 Message  hmm.. plastic surgery.. i think the only way i would get it is if i had some kind of crazy huge scar...

i got in a car accident with my friend last may and she got her spleen removed... she has this huge scar all the way down her belly... she’s having surgery soon to remove it...

i never thought of surgery as an option before.. but in a situation like hers, i would go for it.. because my self esteem sucks as it is... and i know it would just get worse if something like that happened to me.. 

 User   Apocalyptica | 2005-01-17 |
 Subject  untitled 
 Message  Joey, that eye thing is laser surgery, not plastic.

 

 User   secret moon | 2005-01-16 |
 Subject  untitled 
 Message  Me personally? No. I want to experience every part of life to the fullest and I don’t want to miss out on getting older. Yes, I am young and I know that getting older comes with its own aches and pains, but I don’t feel any compulsion to change the way I look now (other than naturally shaving off a few pounds =) ) so why should I when I get older? But I don’t care about what other people do. . . really it’s their own choice and I see absolutely nothing that’s WRONG about doing it. It’s just one of those things, like getting a perm or going on a diet. Neither right nor wrong. It just is. 

 User   Di Re Rakord | 2005-01-08 |
 Subject  Guys 
 Message  I’m pretty indiferent to the whole plastic sergery. But since there is so much talk about those nasty boys not comming on and saying boobies i think one of them should take a shot at it so here it is BOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOBIES!!!!!!!!!
 

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