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User	Kunoichi | 2006-09-06 |
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Message	Happened to me, and I broke it off. I’m sure this is the obvious answer, but if you leave them as soon as there’s a problem like that, you are saving them a lot of hurt in the end. And yes they may hate and dread the memories, but as a partner in a relationship it’s his/her responsibility to respect you and be mature about it.

User	eowyn | 2006-09-02 |
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Message	hope its ll ok for you. i did the same. i stopped feeling something for someone, and broke it off. it was the best thing i could have done, becasue it made me feel free, and whole instead of feeling like i was living a lie. and it was better for him because i wasnt beign lied to. afterward i found out what a (censored) he was, but thats another story.

User	Ali Marie | 2006-08-22 |
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Message	thanx ill try. i m gonna break it off soon.

User	dismentled | 2006-08-22 |
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Message	Well that all depends on how good in bed he is.J/P No, seriousily though, if you at least still care about your partner, than it be better off for both of you if you sat him down and broke it to him. Think about it. If he didn’t love you anymore, would you really want him to continue as though he did? That’s not fare to either of you. Hope things work out

User	PiperH | 2006-08-22 |
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Message	Are you certain he will hate you if you tell him how you feel?

User	Ali Marie | 2006-08-22 |
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Message	but i loved him once and i dont want him to hate me.

User	PiperH | 2006-08-22 |
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Message	Well, if you don’t really love someone, it’s probably just best to end the relationship. It may break their hearts, but the more you wait, the more it’s going to hurt. I recently just got my own heart broken, and even though I still haven’t gotten over it yet, I’m glad that they were able to tell me the truth. If they had just kept on pretending, and then broken up with me, I probably would have been a lot more hurt than I am right now.