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User	dismentled | 2007-02-24 |
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Message	So, you decide yet? What you gonna get?

User	XmaryjaneX | 2007-02-18 |
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Message	he’s your husband not your king. try to talk to him or maybe reconsider a smaller tattoo :) or there’s always divorce....JUST KIDDING. i don’t think a tatoo is worth fighting with the one you plan on spending the rest of your life with...so look deep inside yourself... NOT THAT DEEP LOL look deep inside yourself and decide whether it’s worth it or not. if it’s that important to you then i would say do it. if not don’t but that’s just my opinion and it’s not very good so.....meh, i dunno hun. :P

User	dismentled | 2007-02-13 |
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Message	It’s your body, and you’re stuck with whatever you get, so I say get what you want.

User	MyX | 2007-02-13 |
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Message	what what what! =D MyX

User	alteredlife | 2007-02-12 |
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Message	Say what three times fast?

User	Blue Monk | 2007-02-12 |
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Message	Can you say that for us three times real fast?

User	ghostknight | 2007-02-02 |
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Message	i have a new view on the thing about tattos now. after getting an ear and a lip pierced and discovering how much i enjoy the process, i think i can understand tattoos. i have no problem with them at all, but i personally don’t know of anything i love so much that i would want it on my body for the rest of my life- but then here i am with a piece of metal sticking out of my lip. oh well. enjoy life, seems like the right thing to do.

User	Blue Monk | 2007-02-02 |
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Message	I prefer bare flesh to ink on flesh, anytime.

User	alteredlife | 2007-02-02 |
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Message	It’ll be on you back, not your forehead... so your husband having to look at it all day seems a bit unjustified to me. Personally, I like tattoos which can’t be seen when clothes are on... it seems more personal and less flashy that way, I guess. If it’s sentimental to you, go for it. It’s your body and it hurts no-one by you getting it... unless your husband’s a complete soft-cock, that is...

User	Dark Romeo89 | 2007-02-01 |
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Message	I want to turn this into a full debate, because i know that there has to be a fiew more openions on the subject. It is also one that i am verry interested in.

User	onetruesmartass | 2007-01-27 |
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Message	I’m aware that you’re a chick, I was referring to your hubby :P *onetruesmartass*

User	Blue Monk | 2007-01-24 |
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Message	I once saw a guy with all the symbols for the tribes of Israel tatooed on his arm. We can only appreciate the dichotomy represented by reading the following: “You shall not make any cuts in your body for the dead nor make any tattoo marks on yourselves: I am the LORD.” Leviticus 19:28 — New American Standard However, a more favorable comment is made by the following: http://www.sacredink.net/tattoo_and_the_bible/ Nothing like a little confusion to start the day.

User	ChickenLittle | 2007-01-24 |
Subject	OMG
Message	Lol... just to let you know onetruesmartass... im a chick... why else would i have a husband? hahahaha

User	onetruesmartass | 2007-01-21 |
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Message	My insistance, Mae? Did you not see where I very clearly said Mr. Chickenlittle has every right to his opinion and it should be considered in this process? And yes, I do believe that in these situations it’s a personal choice that needs to be made by the person getting it. Not to say the s.o. doesn’t get any say at all, but it really is ultimately up to the person getting the tattoo. *onetruesmartass*

User	Chell | 2007-01-21 |
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Message	My husband doesn’t really care for tattoos. I have three and have designed another four for my back. We agreed at I’d get them where they can be covered by clothes- so I’ve having them done in the small of my back. I understand the significance of tattoos- they’re always personal. Perhaps you can compromise and have them put somewhere that they don’t show while dressed in your normal clothing. Just a thought.. that way you have the tattoo and he doesn’t have to have it in his face every day.

User	mae | 2007-01-20 |
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Message	I think something you should consider heavily that none of us have any way of knowing is the depth of feeling your husband has against the tattoo. This is not a little out of the way thing you’re talking about doing. Your whole back is a huge tattoo - if he find tattoos repulsive (my word, not yours), is it going to be something that impacts your relationship? And which do you want more - a huge tattoo covering your entire back or your husband? Would you be able to compromise on a smaller tattoo? Despite Traci’s insistence that it’s YOUR body and thus should be only your decision, this is something he’ll be looking at the rest of your lives, hopefully. It will impact him as well as just you. But you know the strength of your relationship, the strength of your desire for this tattoo and the strength of his objection. We don’t. mae

User	cabbalistic | 2007-01-20 |
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Message	Research and desi...wow. A lot of work goes into this business, doesn’t it? Didn’t realize.. Anyway...chickenlittle, I say you have a nice long chat with mr. chickenlittle. Perhaps you and him could both reach a decision together. It’s your body, but he didn’t marry you just for your intelligence. :) If he did, call his mother up and tell her she did one hell of a job raising him! Caution: I am not married or anything, I think Traci is though. You probably want to give her opinions precedence over mine where relationships are concerned. Good luck:).

User	cabbalistic | 2007-01-20 |
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Message	Research and desi...wow. A lot of work goes into this business, doesn’t it? Didn’t realize.. Anyway...chickenlittle, I say you have a nice long chat with mr. chickenlittle. Perhaps you and him could both reach a decision together. It’s your body, but he didn’t marry you just for your intelligence. :) If he did, call his mother up and tell her she did one hell of a job raising him! Caution: I am not married or anything, I think Traci is though. You probably want to give her opinions precedence over mine where relationships are concerned. Good luck:).

User	onetruesmartass | 2007-01-20 |
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Message	lol I see what you’re saying cabbalistic, and I agree that getting a tattoo is not something that should be taken lightly or on a whim. It’s something that will be with you for the rest of your life (unless you have the 10 g’s it’s going to cost to have one painfully removed with a laser) And I agree that as her husband, Mr. Chickenlittle has every right to voice his opinion, but what it really boils down to is her. Lets say this is something she really, really wants, enough to research and design it. Now, he says no, stays firm on no and she doesn’t get it. Doesn’t that leave a bit of room for some resentment to set in? Not just for the tattoo of course, but for over ruling one of her decisions in regards to her own body? I don’t know Chickenlittle, but for myself, if anyone were to stop me from doing something relatively harmless with my own body, I would be pissed. (and yes, I say tattoos are relatively harmless because if you go to a clean artist and keep it clean while healing, there’s little to no chance of infection. ) *onetruesmartass*

User	cabbalistic | 2007-01-20 |
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Message	heya onetruesmartass! I don’t think tattooes are generally disfiguring...only if they’re done on your face or cover your entire body, bugs me a bit then. To me (note: to ME, hehe) I have to stare a bit at someone covered in tattooes from head to toe to convince my brain it’s a fellow human:). cheers.