Women are more willing to pull down their skins while men not so much. This seems to set up a tension between them. Women always probing, men always defending. Their must be some value to that state of things if it is universal and not just learned. It does seem right that lovers should pull down their skins.
Some women think it's nasty when a man can pull his skin down, and rather cut it off at birth. I doubt they listen to the gurgling and screaming, I wouldn't, but only because I'd fear to lose another part of my humanity. For true men change the world and not let the world change them, and only true men can be broken for resisting to be molded by their peers, and we all feel the shame of giving in.