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    dots Submission Name: Rantdots

    Author: dreamer37517
    ASL Info:    25/F/Bama
    Elite Ratio:    3.82 - 161/149/49
    Words: 304
    Class/Type: Rant/Love
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    So this is about my relationship. Any comments would be welcomed, other than that its just a rant I had to let out.

    Ive been with my guy for 1 year now. Were doing good. He even moved in for about a month now so he could get a job since his area was not hiring.
    But now he wants to move back in with his parents, back to the small town that offers nothing. Hes 26. He plans to transfer from his current store to a store that is in a town next to his parents town, which is even farther away from me!
    He keeps making bad decisions and saying things without thinking about them, such as " I might move back " when the town his parents live in is 50 miles away. He says he does not mind the travel to get back to me whenever he possibly can. But I dont want to deal with that.
    I can not and do not want to do a long distance relationship. But I dont want to give him up. And he says he does not want to break up with me at all.
    He makes bad decisions on the car he has, it barely runs or has to have 100's of dollars worth of repair almost every month it seems. Or else he wants a different one just like.....instead of a more economical and smarter car.
    Its so frustrating dealing with this almost every day.
    He talks to one of his ex's daily, but she is married with a kid so I think I trust her, I just have not lately cuz of how Ive been feeling lately I guess.
    Im just scared and frustrated and dont want to feel like im wasting my time with him

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      Talk to him, you can't love him by yourself, I'm sure that he has emotions involved as well. Tell him exactly what you said here, and if he doesn't listen, then maybe he doesn't hear you for a reason, he could be self-absorbed... especially if he can say things that are painful to you without conscience... Just something to think about.
    | Posted on 2011-03-02 00:00:00 | by Oracle | [ Reply to This ]
      The job market in Alabama is a nasty thing. I know first hand. I'm not sure where you are in the state but just for background purposes I'm in the Huntsville area. It's retarded hard to find a job without a degree here. That is unless you want to settle for 8.50 an hour. You're young first and foremost. You have to remember that you have to do what is best for you. He also has to do what is best for him. Sometimes people get tunnel vision with relationships and don't want to let go despite what is going on around them. I've seen people that I swear could let the Earth fall under their feet and never take their eyes off of each other to save themselves. He will have to make a decision on what to do. And you should rightfully encourage him to do what is in HIS BEST INTEREST. You should respect yourself enough to also do what is in your best interest. Remember, it's much easier to piece back together a broken heart or find a new relationship than it is to recover from the stress of stretching out what is already gone.
    | Posted on 2011-03-02 00:00:00 | by Silencer | [ Reply to This ]

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