that's a shame. communication is something we all seem to struggle with around here but it's terrible when things get to a point of people screaming or becoming violent in any manner. i guess it doesn't even have to be in a conventional sense either, frugal works. sometimes it's economics. i guess with less we tend to focus on those lesser things, but with all the other time and resources for stimulation the finger-tips brushing/hand holding excitement loses it's luster quite quickly. it's probably all a good argument to take things slow.
honestly, the biggest thing i missed about not being in a relationship was hand holding. hand touching. hand talking.
i don't ever want to forget the simple of that right now. before life gets a hold of me and i take it for granted. i don't want to take any of it for granted today.
i am not sure when my ex and i stopped talking or handholding. i do remember when it got to the point that we no longer saw eachother. and we probably both arm waved. i say we because i think we were both to blame in certain areas. looking back at it all now. idk.
i came to the conclusion that loving shouldn't be so hard. it just shouldn't.