i went out with someone that everyone i know hates. i loved him & im still not over him but i could never tell anyone. its just been eating away at me for months & its driving me crazy. i mean, its bad enough that i still feel that way but i cant even f***ing talk about it. THAT certainly doesnt help the healing process.
Anyways...im gonna be a hypocrite & tell u that it would probably be better to just let it out. it might be hard at 1st but in time it'll be easier if they already know.